【海外の反応】8年間ベジタリアンの彼女が「旅行中だけ肉食べたい」→ヴィーガン彼氏が面倒すぎたwww

NTA, but if you've been a vegetarian for 8 years switching to eating meat with your meals for 3 weeks may not be super comfortable for you. I would start reintroducing meat now.

I mean NTA for WANTING to, but after 8 years that meat is not gonna agree with your stomach

Speaking from my own experience, in my culture (I'm Chinese), vegetarianism is common because of the prevalence of Buddhism. Devote Buddhists will sometimes adopt vegetarianism for reasons of mercy and to minimize lives taken. Depending on their needs and devotion, people may adopt vegetarianism to various degrees, like "beginner" vegetarians will eat meat free meals on the 1st and 15th of the agrarian calendar, and as you advance you may have more and more designated meat free days until you're a "full-time" vegetarian. Making your meat free days consistent with days of the calendar also makes it easier for your family to meal plan, as most people lives in multi-generational homes and not everyone is gonna be vegetarian, or vegetarian to the same degree.

The point I'm trying to make is that most vegetarians and vegans adopt meat free diets for compassionate reasons like yourself. It doesn't have to be a zero-sum, black and white practice. Any degree of vegetarianism is an act of compassion and commendable. Your partner's reaction to dietary choices outside of his own, however, is not compassionate and in my opinion defeats the purpose of this benevolent practice.

As a fellow vegetarian, don't listen to all the "you have to do something 100% or you don't have the morals you claim" comments. I mostly take the bus, but sometimes I take a cab. I mostly take short showers, but sometimes I take a bath. And yes, when I'm traveling somewhere new and different, I don't limit myself to vegetarian food. So I personally think you're NTA. I believe in harm reduction and that there's nothing special about 100% vs 99%.

But, that's my own take. If your fiancé is a pretty hardcore vegan who sees meat as murder/slavery etc, I can also understand specifically not wanting a life partner who eats meat. Ultimately, if that's his take then that's his take. 

NTA but be careful! If you haven't eaten any meat in 8 years you don't want to get sick. 

NTA. But you and your bf need to work this out before the trip or y'all are going to be miserable the whole time.

Besides all the other comments, remember your body may not like you adding animal proteins back. Many people get very sick. Otherwise, do what you want

NTA but be careful. Your stomach is not used to digesting meat anymore & it can make you ill. Don’t go too hard on it

NTA

You're already walking on eggshells to avoid triggering an unregulated emotional outburst from your partner. You actively avoided telling them your plan. They sound like a bully. Is this just one instance of a habit of punishing controlling behavior in your relationship?

Are you planning to go on this trip with your partner? If you are, the controlling behavior will escalate and they will steal your joy to feel powerful and punish you for being different from the role they've assigned you. While you're far from home and familiar supports, trapped with them.

The degree of your ethical commitment to a vegetarian diet is your own to decide. If you plan on traveling with your current partner, having your plate policed will be a daily constant.

NTA but be careful, eating meat now after not eating it for so long could REALLY upset your stomach